Someone wise once told me that if you don’t like what people are saying about your writing, then write better.
It’s plain and simple, and the principle can be applied to any endeavor. If you don’t like an outcome or a response, then do better. Excuses, self-pity, anger, all that is useless.
Appreciate the compliments as well as the criticism. But really appreciate the criticism. Because that can be the seed of greatness.